Nothing makes me feel more comfortable in my own skin than dressing up a bit. Sure, it’s nice to do it for your man, but I like to do it just for me sometimes too. I like walking past my mirror and catching a glimpse of myself and thinking, ‘You are one hot mama!’
I have a white pleated chiffon babydoll < http://www.hotplussizelingerie.com/best-sellers/white-pleated-chiffon-babydoll.html> that I just love. The underwire provides just enough support to really showcase my best asset, while the flowing skirt is styled to leave me comfortable and feminine. That is the best feature of this item of clothing: it is ultra feminine. Flattering and becoming, it hits at just the right spot to make me look ravishing and irresistible.
There is just a little pop of color right on the cups that really draws the eye right to the bosom, which you know is exactly where I want someone’s eyes drawn. The pleats begin at the bodice and are very subtle. So the skirt hangs very easily and naturally. It comes with a matching thong panty. When I wear this I feel comfortable, sexy, and alluring. Sometimes I lounge around it in because it is so comfortable, but I also whip it out when I want to impress.
The nice thing about beautiful lingerie is it is kind of like playing dress up. You remember the thrill of putting on your mother’s fancy shoes or jewelry or dresses and gadding about in the house? Lingerie gives you that same delight. It’s a little slice of ecstasy to have on something so girly, frilly, and playful. You just feel lighter and happier. You can’t help it. So I like to have some special pieces that are just for me. I mean, sure, I’ll share them with my guy. But I really bought them for me.
I can’t help it. I just love the 50s. Maybe it’s because I’m not old enough to have been alive then, so I feel like I missed out. But it just seems like such a fun time period. And I love the clothes. The Flirty Soda Pop 1950s costume http://www.hotplussizelingerie.com/plus-size-costumes/flirty-soda-pop-1950-s-costume-1365.html is calling my name.
I love the so-50s color of the bright pink—not the neon of the 80s, but the absolutely pink of the 50s—trimmed in the stark black. Even more I love the details. The lace-trimmed apron with the cherries embroidered on it that matches the cut diner hat is just too much! The black trim on the skirt is just enough, but not too much to make you just feel silly in it. Then the polka dot necktie that screams 1950s finishes off the look. Everything about this costume shouts authentic, but it’s got a sex appeal that the diner outfit definitely didn’t sport! It’s like a marriage of what I love about the 1950s with what I love about feeling sexy in the new millennium.
I also love the idea of turning heads while still having a demure quality about my costume. It’s the kind of thing you know you look good in, but there is still something left to the imagination. Wasn’t it Coco Chanel who said that a little mystery drives men wild? I’m thinking that I can put on a little pair of lacy white socks and Mary Janes—stilettos or pumps or maybe even flats???—and make my man wish we never left the house again.
But first, I really want to show this Flirty Soda Pop 1950s costume girl off at our annual Halloween party down the block. It’s just too cute to save for just around the house. And, hey, an evening of seeing me across the room in this too cute but so sexy get-up will be just what my man needs. Happy Halloween!
Halloween is right around the corner, so of course, I am thinking about what I want to be this year. I love this time of year with its crisp air and the feeling of anticipation everywhere. So, I always want to outdo myself each Halloween. My frontrunner for this year’s festivities is definitely the Sexy Hippy Chick costume http://www.hotplussizelingerie.com/plus-size-costumes/sexy-hippie-chick-costume-1405.html.
The colors are bright and crisp—kind of autumn itself—and the paisley design is flattering as well. I love the long, flowing sleeves. Really, what I love the most is that fact that you’re actually covered up—no low cut peek-a-boo—but it’s still very sexy. Sure, it’s very short. But if it’s cool that night, I can always put on a pair of thick pantyhose or tights and go right on out rocking my Go-Go boots. The headband matches and creates a nice way to wear low fuss hair and still look super all night long.
Plus, I think I could probably get away with wearing my Sexy Hippy Chick costume as a shirt over tights later in the year. So, the costume could actually serve double duty for me.
I always like to kind of surprise at Halloween and that’s another reason I love this costume. It’s not the typical thing you would expect to see. It’s not a tired costume we’ve all seen over and over again. And as a bonus, I won’t feel silly or uncomfortable all night. The style of this costume means no pinching and no feeling like I can’t breathe all night.
Now that I’ve definitely decided on my costume for this year, this Sexy Hippy Chick is going to go stock up on Halloween candy for the kiddos. Oh, yeah, and I’m going to go ahead and decide which Halloween party invitation to RSVP to. Or maybe I should just swing by both parties after the trick-or-treaters have packed it in? Decisions, decisions. At least the most important one is already made.
Halloween will be here before you know it so now is a great time to plan for what you might want to wear. If you are having trouble deciding what to dress as this Halloween, but you do know you are looking for a costume that will make heads turn, is sexy, stylish and hot, yet comfortable and affordable; sink your teeth into this year’s sure to be show stopper, the Sexy Vampire Costume!
You’ll be a hit this year with this gorgeous costume, featuring a sleek black stretch knit dress, which boasts a beautiful scalloped edge neckline in contrasting burgundy color and a stunning matching stand up satin black/burgundy collar. The designer had comfort and versatility in mind when they created it by adding adjustable straps and hooks for a perfect fit. Have you ever worn a sexy dress that had no straps and fidgeted all day & night making sure the dress (and you) stay in place? You won’t have this worry about that with this dress, it’s secure for your partying pleasure so you can dance the night away with no worries!
Let’s face it, Vampires are HOT! From Twilight Movies and series like True Blood on HBO, almost everyone these days has at one time or another wondered what it would be like to a vampire, having the ability to be immortal, sleeping by day then ruling the night searching for their next “victim”, and others have even fantasized about what it would be like to become a vampire’s prey!
You’ll be the highlight of the night when you arrive wearing this costume which also comes with a black cape with burgundy lining, a pentagram insignia belt with chains, a black sexy choker with ring and last but not least, Vampire fangs! Plus sizes available range from 1X to 4X but hurry and order before they are gone!
Halloween is such a great time of year for those especially that love role playing, stepping out of their own lives and becoming someone else, even if for one night, and this Halloween make it your night by becoming a sexy Vampire goddess!
Sometimes discussing or focusing on what we find less than appealing about our bodies can almost be a past time for women. It is as if there is some sort of structure in our brains that equates voicing the dissatisfaction with somehow changing the actual appearance of our thighs, our stomach or our rear end.
Obviously that is not the case, but few things tempt us to walk down the path of self criticism in regards to our shape more so than a full length mirror while trying on a swimsuit or piece of lingerie (unless you also add fluorescent lighting to the mix. Just one more reason I like ordering online!)
Its not that I am saying that I have completely overcome having a critical eye on my own figure. I have definitely had that..and at times still do. And the partial “cure” I am about to announce is not exactly new either. That said, practicing it can breath new life into my own body image and I don’t mind reminding myself of the power of doing that. After all, sometimes the biggest difference between being perceived as sexy or not is the way I carry myself and how sexy I feel in my own skin. If something I wear can help bolster a more positive self image then why not?
And that is where lingerie comes in. It is definitely not the enemy. As a matter of fact few things can make me feel more attractive than the right piece of sexy lingerie. The caveat there is that it is “the right” piece. If I could pick apart my “flaws” why not also be able to take note of my assets? And that is the secret. Take a few moments and take stock of your assets. Ask yourself for a moment what YOU think your top three most attractive features are. Do you have blue eyes that light up whenever you wear the right shade of blue (think light colors of lingerie like blue or white with blue accents), do you have some major curves and look especially hot in anything that accents your waist (think corset) or maybe your shoulders are especially sexy (think halter cut lingerie for showing them off!)
I have relatively long legs and a rather impressive amount of cleavage. If you put me in most teddies I feel all hips and thighs and not in a good way but place me in the right push up babydoll with sheer fabric that is cut open in the front and skims lightly over my hip area plus a pair of hot heels and look out world…or should I say–look out, cute husband sitting in my bedroom waiting for me to make an entrance!
Shopping Tips For Men
Lingerie as a gift reminds me of the old adage, “the gift that keeps on giving.”
Of course this is only the case if the piece of lingerie you choose suits her style and actually makes her feel more sexier…which brings us to most guys dilemma: how to find the right piece?
While some men shy away from lingerie shopping for their significant other for fear of getting it “wrong,” one of the most important things to remember is its YOU she is trying to look sexy for. When a woman goes lingerie shopping for herself one of the first and foremost questions in her mind is “will he like it” so men actually have a built in advantage when shopping for lingerie for a partner.
That said, we understand the requests for a few pointers and are glad to share! When shopping for a sexy piece of lingerie as a gift sometimes choosing a color can be the easiest place to start. You don’t have to tie yourself to only shopping one color (unless you’re sure she only likes a certain color of lingerie) but its good to know what if any colors you should rule out. If you have never seen her wear babydoll pink color before or a wildly bold red then play it safe and don’t venture that she will want to start now. Black is typically the safest, most universally flattering choice and of course white is a pretty close second as a relatively safe neutral when shopping for a gift. Simply think about the color palette you see her wearing day to day. Stick to that and you are bound to make a good choice!
The second step is sizing. Take a quick look at a couple of the lingerie items that you like on our site and the sizing charts on their product pages. That will give you a clue as to what to look for when you glance at the clothing sizes in her closet. Most manufacturers have an equivalent dress size in their charts so if you can glance at something she already owns, even if its not lingerie, then you should have a good basis for getting her the right size. If its a bra or corset you are buying however you will likely need to get a peak at her bra size as well. It might be tricky to do for most people but we figure if you are shopping for lingerie for her you probably already have bra access;)
Lastly, there is the question of style. If she is pretty demure chances are you can skip over the black vinyl corsets and choose something more traditional like a sheer babydoll. Babydolls tend to be the most universally flattering style for any body type actually but if part of the look your going for is thigh high stockings or you think that a long lace gown is more her look trust your instincts.
Last but not least, its also a great idea to finish off the look with a fabulous pair of heels. After all , what woman won’t appreciate a new pair of sexy shoes? Not to mention its an easy place to get her sizing just right and make any lingerie look just that much sexier!
Sexy Role Playing
Sex can be a lot of things…but one of the sweetest things a couple can do sometimes with each other is remain playful and open to fulfilling each others fantasies. Whether you have been married for years or are in the honeymoon phase of a new relationship, if you are in the sexy lingerie phase then don’t discount the fun and pleasure that some very sexy costume lingerie can help you enjoy!
I can’t tell you why dressing up like a cheerleader does it for one man and being a naughty nurse does it for another. What I can say is that if you’re not sure which kind of costume would get the best reception there are a number of ways to find out.
#1- Start with finding out what makes YOU feel sexiest. Most women know what cut and look are most figure flattering and fit their own personal sense of style. After all, its when you feel your sexiest that you can often turn your partner on the most!
#2- Next time your intimate try whispering a few suggestive questions into his ear (such as “If I greeted you at the door one night in a sexy costume what would you want to see me wearing?”) He may think you are just spicing up your bedroom talk a bit but little does he know you are also doing some investigating to help pull off the ultimate surprise!
#3 And a sure fire way to find the right costume that you’ll both enjoy is to simply mark a few items down on your wishlist and email him a link to the site with your login! This can also serve to build up the anticipation and excitement of what’s to come! (Just make sure its not his work email;)
Last but not least, certainly don’t feel limited to only perusing our sexy bedroom costumes! We have party costumes so sexy they are perfect for bedroom play as well. So whether you are most comfortable as an innocent yet Sexy French Maid in black heels and stockings or you’d like to frisk him while dressed up as a Sexy Cop…the choices are almost as endless as your imagination!
Planning A Romantic Evening
While books like “The Five Love Languages” help people discover the kinds of loving gestures that might be most meaningful to themselves or their partner…romance for many is often about an element of surprise that conveys a backdrop of thoughtfulness: actions that say “I was thinking of you” or “you meant enough to me to take the time to plan something.”
As a woman, that is were surprising your partner by wearing lingerie comes in. Hearing stories from male friends it his hard to convey the look of wistful appreciation when they recall a woman they have cared about who unexpectedly surprised them by wearing some sexy piece of lingerie, (which makes sense of course, since as a broad generalization, men are visual.) That combined with the generalization that men also tend to be very sexual and well…a lingerie-clad woman they are attracted to is an image that seems to remain near to their heart for years to come.
Sure, sometimes romance seems hard to come by and in long term relationships especially so with the potential daily stressors of work, bills, and a busy schedule. The idea of weekend getaways are nice but can also be expensive and time consuming. That’s why the idea that I could spend less than $40 to slip into something that makes me feel sexy and makes my husband feel like he just came home from a long day to something other than what he expected…in a good way, sounds like a bargain. Dim lights, peace and quiet and just a little interlude of intimacy is really all it takes to remind each other that romance is not only still alive, but that even the smallest of gestures can keep it thriving.« Previous Page Next Entries »